"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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how would you handle this situtation

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your girlfriend who you really, really, really liked and were really into, breaks up with you, and is ****ing your roomate within 1 week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Gangster Of Love

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You don't handle it. You let it be. Better that her true colors came out after only one week than a few months down the road.

How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
 

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just a situtation i caught wind of in a friends life that i thought was pretty ****ed up and wanted to know what ya'll think.
 

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Dump the room mate and ignore the girl. Obviously it's a jealousy tactic, the girl is just playing head games. I assume the room mate would be considered a "friend" sense they live together, but what kind of person fvcks your left over garbage RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? Doesn't sound like somebody I would want a friendship or living arrangement with.
 

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If your a wuss then beat up or talk to your roomate. If you a true pimp just get more girls.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women are amoral and opportunistic so it wouldn't surprise me one bit.

I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.

I don't keep associations with lowlives.
 
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