backbreaker
Master Don Juan
your girlfriend who you really, really, really liked and were really into, breaks up with you, and is ****ing your roomate within 1 week.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how would you handle this situtation
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
You don't handle it. You let it be. Better that her true colors came out after only one week than a few months down the road.
How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
How do you handle what part of it? The fact that she comes around the guy's place to fvck the roomie? The fact that the guy got dumped?
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
just a situtation i caught wind of in a friends life that i thought was pretty ****ed up and wanted to know what ya'll think.
Scars
Master Don Juan
Dump the room mate and ignore the girl. Obviously it's a jealousy tactic, the girl is just playing head games. I assume the room mate would be considered a "friend" sense they live together, but what kind of person fvcks your left over garbage RIGHT IN FRONT OF YOU? Doesn't sound like somebody I would want a friendship or living arrangement with.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
DarthNihilus
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Women are amoral and opportunistic so it wouldn't surprise me one bit.
I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.
I don't keep associations with lowlives.
I'd shrug my shoulders and move on as well find a new roomate.
I don't keep associations with lowlives.