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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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How would you guys go about asking out a shop assistant?

Eternal_water

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At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
 

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miketan70

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Would you like to go out with me sometimes? I know I am direct but honestly I would like to take you out:)
 

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Try to flirt a bit with her there. You will see how she will react and then call her out.
 

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DragonBlood

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Seeing as you havent spoken to her... first open a brief open (one or two things said each) literally just to break the tension then follow "hey lets go out to dinner later, when do you get off?". React to her answers from there. The sooner you get to the point the better.
 

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Eternal_water said:
At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
Be careful bro, she could be like that with EVERY guy. I've had a girl say "let's have sex" and I thought it was because I was so sexy and witty. Later I found out she is like that will all the guys.

Anyway, if you want to ask her out, don't go right in to it. Flirt a little and then say "Would you like to go for a coffee tomorrow?" It's not really that hard. And if you are having trouble initiating for a simple date, what are you going to do when things get physical?
 

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Tell her you'd like to go out and grab drinks sometime, and get her number. If shes interested she will give it to you.
 

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Go to the shop and approach her when other people aren't around. She might feel uncomfortable giving you her number / agreeing to meet when other colleagues or customers are around.
 
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