"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How would you guys go about asking out a shop assistant?

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Eternal_water

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At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Would you like to go out with me sometimes? I know I am direct but honestly I would like to take you out:)
 
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Try to flirt a bit with her there. You will see how she will react and then call her out.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Seeing as you havent spoken to her... first open a brief open (one or two things said each) literally just to break the tension then follow "hey lets go out to dinner later, when do you get off?". React to her answers from there. The sooner you get to the point the better.
 
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Eternal_water said:
At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
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Be careful bro, she could be like that with EVERY guy. I've had a girl say "let's have sex" and I thought it was because I was so sexy and witty. Later I found out she is like that will all the guys.

Anyway, if you want to ask her out, don't go right in to it. Flirt a little and then say "Would you like to go for a coffee tomorrow?" It's not really that hard. And if you are having trouble initiating for a simple date, what are you going to do when things get physical?
 
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Tell her you'd like to go out and grab drinks sometime, and get her number. If shes interested she will give it to you.
 
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Go to the shop and approach her when other people aren't around. She might feel uncomfortable giving you her number / agreeing to meet when other colleagues or customers are around.
 
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