"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How would you guys go about asking out a shop assistant?

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At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Would you like to go out with me sometimes? I know I am direct but honestly I would like to take you out:)
 
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Try to flirt a bit with her there. You will see how she will react and then call her out.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Seeing as you havent spoken to her... first open a brief open (one or two things said each) literally just to break the tension then follow "hey lets go out to dinner later, when do you get off?". React to her answers from there. The sooner you get to the point the better.
 
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Eternal_water said:
At a supermarket.

I've seen her around a couple of times on nights out and got good IOI's. She served me at the till a few days back and I didn't realise it was her and was getting solid IOI's off her, more than just the required politeness.

I didn't realise it was her till I'd left.
So how would you ask out a shop assistant in her place of work?
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Be careful bro, she could be like that with EVERY guy. I've had a girl say "let's have sex" and I thought it was because I was so sexy and witty. Later I found out she is like that will all the guys.

Anyway, if you want to ask her out, don't go right in to it. Flirt a little and then say "Would you like to go for a coffee tomorrow?" It's not really that hard. And if you are having trouble initiating for a simple date, what are you going to do when things get physical?
 
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Tell her you'd like to go out and grab drinks sometime, and get her number. If shes interested she will give it to you.
 
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Go to the shop and approach her when other people aren't around. She might feel uncomfortable giving you her number / agreeing to meet when other colleagues or customers are around.
 
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