dustmuffin
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Who cares what she thinks. You probably won’t see her again.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
How would you cut a date short?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
EyeBRollin
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Keep first dates short - coffee, a round of drinks, or a walk in the park (pandemic). This is less of a problem.
After that, you just won’t ask out a chick for another date if you’re on the fence. Don't waste each other’s time.
After that, you just won’t ask out a chick for another date if you’re on the fence. Don't waste each other’s time.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
"I'm gonna to get going" and leave.
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
There's no need to overcomplicate this, nor make up an excuse to leave. Just be direct - I'd personally just say something like 'Listen I don't think we're compatible, I'm not really feeling it. I'm gonna go'.
EyeOnThePrize
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The most respectful thing you can do is be honest. Plenty of times I've said "hey I'm not really feeling it, I don't think we're that compatible, I'm gonna take off, best of luck." Then leave. Women perceive this as abundance because it is. The women that are offended by this are the ones you don't want to be involved with anyway.
You should be a bit patient and seek the good in everyone though. Networking has its privileges.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.