dustmuffin
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Who cares what she thinks. You probably won’t see her again.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How would you cut a date short?
- Thread starter sosumba
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
EyeBRollin
Master Don Juan
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Keep first dates short - coffee, a round of drinks, or a walk in the park (pandemic). This is less of a problem.
After that, you just won’t ask out a chick for another date if you’re on the fence. Don't waste each other’s time.
After that, you just won’t ask out a chick for another date if you’re on the fence. Don't waste each other’s time.
FlexpertHamilton
Master Don Juan
"I'm gonna to get going" and leave.
Guitar_Whizz
Master Don Juan
There's no need to overcomplicate this, nor make up an excuse to leave. Just be direct - I'd personally just say something like 'Listen I don't think we're compatible, I'm not really feeling it. I'm gonna go'.
EyeOnThePrize
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The most respectful thing you can do is be honest. Plenty of times I've said "hey I'm not really feeling it, I don't think we're that compatible, I'm gonna take off, best of luck." Then leave. Women perceive this as abundance because it is. The women that are offended by this are the ones you don't want to be involved with anyway.
You should be a bit patient and seek the good in everyone though. Networking has its privileges.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.