"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
How would you approach it? (pic included)
- Thread starter Blackmm
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
DonJoseCantosie
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Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
In this instance, judging strictly by the picture, the one on the right should be your target due to the slight separation in the 3 and, really, she's the most attractive of the set. Your back is to her (your right side target) slightly and you open on the center one. Include the far left girl for her input and gradually acknowledge your target as she attempts to include herself. Segue into all 3, but keep the target at arms length and qualifying to be in the conversation. Reward any of her IOIs with incremental attention. Stay C&F and Neg only the target if it seems appropriate and even then keep it light hearted. Disengage after 5-6 minutes and allow them to talk about you before returning (this is social proof generation). This time involve the target more, but stay entertaining. Isolate the target and enjoy.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
theunflushables
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