"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How would you approach it? (pic included)

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Direct would be a good way of going about it i'd say...i would then just address the big girl right afterward, and then the other potential ****block and bam. They look bored, which is perfect! :)
 

Sir-M

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Sexual said:
I personally see one and a half.
... i dont see none

Lol.. but come on.. from behind?? please run back and take a pic from the front, i dont like making approaches from behind.:kick:
 

Rollo Tomassi

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A 3 set is easier than a 2. You've got a higher probability of at least one clicking with you. Also, there's a higher comfort level on your part because they know you're at a disadvantage (i.e. outnumbered) if you're solo.

In this instance, judging strictly by the picture, the one on the right should be your target due to the slight separation in the 3 and, really, she's the most attractive of the set. Your back is to her (your right side target) slightly and you open on the center one. Include the far left girl for her input and gradually acknowledge your target as she attempts to include herself. Segue into all 3, but keep the target at arms length and qualifying to be in the conversation. Reward any of her IOIs with incremental attention. Stay C&F and Neg only the target if it seems appropriate and even then keep it light hearted. Disengage after 5-6 minutes and allow them to talk about you before returning (this is social proof generation). This time involve the target more, but stay entertaining. Isolate the target and enjoy.
 

The Inside Man

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Wow, major creep factor taking a picture of them, then discussing how to approach them on a message board. Wow! lol.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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theunflushables

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You had a camera too, that could have been used as a prop. "I'm an artist bleah bleah. Know any good places to take pictures?" Go from there.
 
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