"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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How would a DJ handle arguments?

Roly

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Yeah? How would an ideal DJ handle an argument? With women or any women (including his mother). They say the best thing to do is to be cool, calm and collected. Yet you've got to achieve that mindset first.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Vypros

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You say your piece, defend yourself, and then you walk away.

You don't have to be completely calm, but you need to be FIRM and IN CONTROL at all times.
 

Kev07

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Remember, you can try to use reason to argue with women, but you will fail. women tend to abandon all reason when they argue just so they can be right.

Women WILL lie to prove themselves right

when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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christz

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anytime i get into an argument with a chick, i usally let them fly off the handel and when they stop talking i say.. "are you done?"
 

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Here is my 2 Centavos

I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"
 
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