Roly
Senior Don Juan
Yeah? How would an ideal DJ handle an argument? With women or any women (including his mother). They say the best thing to do is to be cool, calm and collected. Yet you've got to achieve that mindset first.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
How would a DJ handle arguments?
- Thread starter Roly
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kev07
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Remember, you can try to use reason to argue with women, but you will fail. women tend to abandon all reason when they argue just so they can be right.
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Here is my 2 Centavos
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"