Roly
Senior Don Juan
Yeah? How would an ideal DJ handle an argument? With women or any women (including his mother). They say the best thing to do is to be cool, calm and collected. Yet you've got to achieve that mindset first.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
How would a DJ handle arguments?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Kev07
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Remember, you can try to use reason to argue with women, but you will fail. women tend to abandon all reason when they argue just so they can be right.
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Here is my 2 Centavos
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"