Roly
Senior Don Juan
Yeah? How would an ideal DJ handle an argument? With women or any women (including his mother). They say the best thing to do is to be cool, calm and collected. Yet you've got to achieve that mindset first.
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
How would a DJ handle arguments?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Kev07
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Remember, you can try to use reason to argue with women, but you will fail. women tend to abandon all reason when they argue just so they can be right.
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
Women WILL lie to prove themselves right
when in doubt, make a comment about basic female insecurities, my favorite would be their expanding waistline
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Wzs99
Don Juan
Here is my 2 Centavos
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"
I have learned that arguing with a woman is totally useless. They are total master minds when it comes with arguing, because they dont use logic ( imagine that) like we do. The best think I like to do is. well someone else said it best "Change her MOOD, not her Mind"