Long story short. My girlfriend and I went to eat with her sister and brother in law. Everything was going fine and out of nowhere she was being a batch and I called her out on it. I think I caught her off guard because she didn't think I would do it in front of her family, so she became more of a *****. I kept poking at her trying to instigate it further since she was being boring and a ***** the whole time. Anyways, we get outside and she basically says I don't want to talk to you right now. Word. I get her in my truck and blast music, singing and having a good time. Drop Her off at her car and don't even look at her. Haven't talked to her since last night. She is ragging but that's no excuse. Was this handled well? Certainly didn't get quite the response I was after because usually when I put her in her place and be a **** she comes around pretty quick.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
How was this handled
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
stevo
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If you're out and your girl is acting a dummy and you're with friends, you don't call her out on it the moment it's happening especially in front of other people. You shouldn't be that concerned about why her mood changed, women go through sheet like that.
What you do is, end the night early. Exit out of there.
Just go by your principles, if someone is bringing you down or ruining the night, you exit and go do something better.
If you really want to talk about it, that'd be later when she's not in a mood so she can better receive what you're saying.
She might not hit you up because she feels embarrassed. If you wait 5 days after it happened and nothing from her, hit her up to go do something. If she responds move the relationship like that day didn't happen, don't even bring it up.
What you do is, end the night early. Exit out of there.
Just go by your principles, if someone is bringing you down or ruining the night, you exit and go do something better.
If you really want to talk about it, that'd be later when she's not in a mood so she can better receive what you're saying.
She might not hit you up because she feels embarrassed. If you wait 5 days after it happened and nothing from her, hit her up to go do something. If she responds move the relationship like that day didn't happen, don't even bring it up.
Thorninmyside
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Making a scene with an audience was less than awesome, but she sounds like a cow and needs to know that the red monster is not a get out of jail free card.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
devilkingx2
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apparently the best way to deal with a woman being a b**** for no reason is to just ignore her until she gets over it
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Yeah. I started a thread about this kind of scenario.
When one is arguing with another it is very difficult to keep your composure. One says things & later regrets saying them. Sometimes my girlfriend tells me something that she knows will pi** me off. I have been reacting to it. I'm working on not reacting, keeping my cool..going away thinking it over.
When one is arguing with another it is very difficult to keep your composure. One says things & later regrets saying them. Sometimes my girlfriend tells me something that she knows will pi** me off. I have been reacting to it. I'm working on not reacting, keeping my cool..going away thinking it over.