Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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How to work through her to get to her friensd?

TempestNight

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Met a Venezuelan chick from a store, she's about a 6/10, obviously she isn't my target but her friends are, she showed me some pictures of her friends and cousins and god they are gorgeous, easily 8+.

Had a "first date" with her on Friday, just a casual coffee meet up where we chatted. I think she is into me though, she asked me when we are gonna meet again before we parted ways. I said next week just to be ambiguous but she asked me what time.

My question is, how do I work it so that I become in the good friends zone so she invites me to her Venezuelan parties and stuff and introduce me to her hot friends? Never done anything like this.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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If she were already your friend, then it'd be easy.

But you're asking for a girl who thinks she's dating you to put you in the friend zone. THEN you're asking that once you're in the Friend Zone that she invite you to meet her friends. THEN you're going to game her friends, and THEN hope that they respond favorably.

It'd be easier to just go find random HB8+ girls than to get them through this particular girl. Too much work.
 

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Iceberg said:
If she were already your friend, then it'd be easy.

But you're asking for a girl who thinks she's dating you to put you in the friend zone. THEN you're asking that once you're in the Friend Zone that she invite you to meet her friends. THEN you're going to game her friends, and THEN hope that they respond favorably.

It'd be easier to just go find random HB8+ girls than to get them through this particular girl. Too much work.
You are absolutely right. But for the sake of discussion, let's say I'm bored, have nothing else better to do in my life and I want a challenge, how would you go about this?
 

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Iceberg said:
If she were already your friend, then it'd be easy.

But you're asking for a girl who thinks she's dating you to put you in the friend zone. THEN you're asking that once you're in the Friend Zone that she invite you to meet her friends. THEN you're going to game her friends, and THEN hope that they respond favorably.

It'd be easier to just go find random HB8+ girls than to get them through this particular girl. Too much work.
Exactly, this is a rare case where the OP should have dove right into the friend zone in the first place.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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