well me and my girlfriend broke up like a month ago i still like her and she recently told me she still like's me she tells people that me and her will probalby get back together but not too soon, she said it won't happen over night well she said she's kinda liking other people but like's me more she said she doesn't, like like other people so basically she just like's looking around i guess what should i do to win her over all of the way and get her just to like me
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how to win over a girl that like's me but like's other guyz to
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- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Youre her safety... youre the guy she "settles" for. Drop her... have a sense of ****ing pride, will you?
Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Use sentences.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
hey, at least he had commas. THats more than I can say about most of these posts.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Michael Chief
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1. Your grammer is terrible.
2. What is all this "like" business? Go do some research on how to get the right male mindset - and once you have it, you can then ask for help if you need it.
2. What is all this "like" business? Go do some research on how to get the right male mindset - and once you have it, you can then ask for help if you need it.