"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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muscles

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well me and my girlfriend broke up like a month ago i still like her and she recently told me she still like's me she tells people that me and her will probalby get back together but not too soon, she said it won't happen over night well she said she's kinda liking other people but like's me more she said she doesn't, like like other people so basically she just like's looking around i guess what should i do to win her over all of the way and get her just to like me
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Youre her safety... youre the guy she "settles" for. Drop her... have a sense of ****ing pride, will you?

Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
 

Jack McCrack

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Use sentences.
 

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I'd hate to say this, but you need to dump her. If you read the DJ bible, you'd realize that you need to be assertive in a relationship. You're coming across as desperate, and that won't fly.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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