"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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muscles

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well me and my girlfriend broke up like a month ago i still like her and she recently told me she still like's me she tells people that me and her will probalby get back together but not too soon, she said it won't happen over night well she said she's kinda liking other people but like's me more she said she doesn't, like like other people so basically she just like's looking around i guess what should i do to win her over all of the way and get her just to like me
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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TonyTheTigerOI

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Youre her safety... youre the guy she "settles" for. Drop her... have a sense of ****ing pride, will you?

Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
 

Jack McCrack

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Use sentences.
 

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I'd hate to say this, but you need to dump her. If you read the DJ bible, you'd realize that you need to be assertive in a relationship. You're coming across as desperate, and that won't fly.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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