well me and my girlfriend broke up like a month ago i still like her and she recently told me she still like's me she tells people that me and her will probalby get back together but not too soon, she said it won't happen over night well she said she's kinda liking other people but like's me more she said she doesn't, like like other people so basically she just like's looking around i guess what should i do to win her over all of the way and get her just to like me
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
how to win over a girl that like's me but like's other guyz to
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- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
TonyTheTigerOI
Master Don Juan
Youre her safety... youre the guy she "settles" for. Drop her... have a sense of ****ing pride, will you?
Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
Oh yeah - dont type "guyz", thats gay, Id break up with you too.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
Use sentences.
Big Eee Zee
Master Don Juan
hey, at least he had commas. THats more than I can say about most of these posts.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Michael Chief
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1. Your grammer is terrible.
2. What is all this "like" business? Go do some research on how to get the right male mindset - and once you have it, you can then ask for help if you need it.
2. What is all this "like" business? Go do some research on how to get the right male mindset - and once you have it, you can then ask for help if you need it.