backseatjuan
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How to turn her on and get her out with three simple texts?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
How to turn her on and get her out with three simple texts?
- Thread starter backseatjuan
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Zion
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That key lock thing is the dumbest method I ever heard. Do not buy it.
logicallefty
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Something like this:
Lefty's Text 1: "Hi HB. This is Lefty here. Now that you have my number, please don't write on any bathrooms walls 'for a great time call Lefty', OK?"
HB: ((whatever she says..))
((Wait about a day to reply no exact time just 'a while'))
Lefty Text 2: I got all of these people calling me now wanting a 'great time' do you know anything about that???
HB: ((whatever she says))
((Wait about a day to reply.. no exact time just 'a while'))
Lefty Text 3: sorry i took me so long to get back to you. been busy answering all these calls and doing my usual saving of the world I always do... Can we just pick a time, day, place and meet? Be easier that way.
((setup date, be gone))
This lays the groundwork that you aren't a chump with nothing funny to say.
This shows her that you are confident about yourself.
This shows you are busy and have a life besides texting her
This gets you to the question of asking her out in 3 texts.
Edit: You could also concur that this shows a little bit of your polite side too, but not in a chupy way
I have actually done it exactly like this with success on more than one occasion.
Lefty's Text 1: "Hi HB. This is Lefty here. Now that you have my number, please don't write on any bathrooms walls 'for a great time call Lefty', OK?"
HB: ((whatever she says..))
((Wait about a day to reply no exact time just 'a while'))
Lefty Text 2: I got all of these people calling me now wanting a 'great time' do you know anything about that???
HB: ((whatever she says))
((Wait about a day to reply.. no exact time just 'a while'))
Lefty Text 3: sorry i took me so long to get back to you. been busy answering all these calls and doing my usual saving of the world I always do... Can we just pick a time, day, place and meet? Be easier that way.
((setup date, be gone))
This lays the groundwork that you aren't a chump with nothing funny to say.
This shows her that you are confident about yourself.
This shows you are busy and have a life besides texting her
This gets you to the question of asking her out in 3 texts.
Edit: You could also concur that this shows a little bit of your polite side too, but not in a chupy way
I have actually done it exactly like this with success on more than one occasion.
Zion
Senior Don Juan
I'm all for being cheeky but referencing the same joke twice is enough, 3 is too much.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
backseatjuan
Banned
Online works as well?
logicallefty
Moderator
backseatjuan said:
Yes. IMO it's no different than texting. Especially if you do it from a phone.
backseatjuan
Banned
Ok, so let's say you are online dating site.
He HB. This is lefty. Now that you have my number....
But dude, she doesn't have your number. This don't sound legit.
He HB. This is lefty. Now that you have my number....
But dude, she doesn't have your number. This don't sound legit.
logicallefty
Moderator
Yeah I see your point. This was assuming you had exchanged numbers in real life. Will take another couple of messages to get her number online. Your goal online should always be to get the number.backseatjuan said:
backseatjuan
Banned
Hi, what's your number?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
logicallefty
Moderator
I prefer to add a little substances to my messages to chicks but the short, simple, and brief option can be good too.backseatjuan said:
Here is what I might say:
"Hi there. You seem interesting and I would love to shoot the sh|t with you. This message system gives me fits sometimes, the geeks that wrote it must have got something messed up. If you want to send me your number I will text you sometime before the 32nd of this month".
So you may be asking "So why before the 32nd of the month?"
Exactly! She will be wondering too.. If she asks what it means say "That's the day of each month that I behave like a perfect gentleman". And yeah it never comes does it. And I never behave like a perfect gentleman. lol
Key Lock is for guys who just don't get it. It's a great gimmick to sell a system to clueless guys. Unfortunately, these guys are still going for women who aren't highly interested in them because the guys feel that saying something specific is going to get them to like him more.
It's the illusion of action.
The actual material is good, but a true alpha proceeds from a truly abundant mindset, and would use the actual material ONLY TO RESPOND TO WOMEN ALREADY INTERESTED ENOUGH TO BE REACHING OUT TO HIM!!!
It's the illusion of action.
The actual material is good, but a true alpha proceeds from a truly abundant mindset, and would use the actual material ONLY TO RESPOND TO WOMEN ALREADY INTERESTED ENOUGH TO BE REACHING OUT TO HIM!!!