How To Turn Ex GF Into A FWB?

[mrgoodstuff]

11. Is HIV+.

Don't.
Do.
It!

He didnt say HIV.

 

[soulforge]

11. Is HIV+.

Don't.
Do.
It!

I won't do it man... I.was entertaining the idea a little, simply because I have been thinking about the situation objectively & came to the realisation that she is worth nothing more than the odd smash.

So why not use that azz and get some sex mileage out of her..Try out some fun stuff.

However I think damaged woman have a way of sucking you back into there vortex..

That sexy body and crazy sex could could hook a man right in.

So i'm totally leaving this shyte alone!

 

[soulforge]

Please watch this video guys!

Don't fuk Crazy

 

[Dash Riprock]

He didnt say HIV.

I'm being facetious and postulating that if she is/was a drug user, hangs out with pornographers and shady people, lives her life recklessly, and has actually done porn, then there's a good chance she is.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I'm being facetious and postulating that if she is/was a drug user, hangs out with pornographers and shady people, lives her life recklessly, and has actually done porn, then there's a good chance she is.

Right. HIV **** is circulating throughout her and her friends.

 

[soulforge]

I'm being facetious and postulating that if she is/was a drug user, hangs out with pornographers and shady people, lives her life recklessly, and has actually done porn, then there's a good chance she is.

She claims only to be an occasional cocaine user Bruv... She told me only when she goes out drinking. (but hey she could be lying)

For all I know she has an addiction.

Her friend has an addiction... So who is to say she won't develop one, considering the company she keeps.

 

[Dash Riprock]

Right. HIV **** is circulating throughout her and her friends.

Tell that to Tommy Morrison and Magic Johnson.

 

[soulforge]

Tell that to Tommy Morrison and Magic Johnson.

Cocaine is one of those drugs that can go from occasional use, to full scale problem.

Who wants a potential addict girlfriend.

Especially one who lends money to her addict friend.. You know that bytch is going to be financially irresponsible.

And she will accuse YOU of being controlling if you call her out on that shyte.

I'm glad I dropped this hoe!

 

[stovepipe]

She claims only to be an occasional cocaine user Bruv... She told me only when she goes out drinking. (but hey she could be lying)

For all I know she has an addiction.

Her friend has an addiction... So who is to say she won't develop one, considering the company she keeps.

Addicts are good at hiding their addiction. Having known my fair share of addicts I can tell you an addict won't admit he/she is one. Just like a sloot won't admit she's a sloot. And we all know you are who you hangout with. You hangout with a coke head you will eventually end up one.

 

[Epic Days]

As they say, most men are a great blow job away from being cucked. Lol

 

[soulforge]

Addicts are good at hiding their addiction. Having known my fair share of addicts I can tell you an addict won't admit he/she is one. Just like a sloot won't admit she's a sloot. And we all know you are who you hangout with. You hangout with a coke head you will eventually end up one.

Add to that lending money to a coke head.. Imagine your girl gives you're household income away, to help out her coke head freinds.

I would be seriously pizzed.

 

[soulforge]

I heard this excuse from her and have heard this excuse from others.

Apparently cocaine stops you from getting too drunk when on a night out..

What a load of BS.. If you don't want to get too drunk, here is a crazy idea... DRINK LESS

isn't that idea better than resorting to class A drugs lol

 

[soulforge]

I heard this excuse from her and have heard this excuse from others.

Apparently cocaine stops you from getting too drunk when on a night out..

What a load of BS.. If you don't want to get too drunk, here is a crazy idea... DRINK LESS

isn't that idea better than resorting to class A drugs lol

I think its dawning on me how I DODGED a massive bullet here.

Damaged woman can destroy a man in a very short space of time.

Its the great sex and attractiveness that keeps you hooked.. But honestly the price you will eventually pay will never be worth it.

I thank God I found the courage to dump her azz early on.. And not many more months down the line.

 

[Plinco]

Go get HIV tested. If you're negative then I would say that you dodged a bullet.

What were you thinking when you first got to know her?

 

[soulforge]

Go get HIV tested. If you're negative then I would say that you dodged a bullet.

What were you thinking when you first got to know her?

Well mate she didn't tell me much about her past straight away.

I started getting bits of information off her, bit by bit over the course of three months.

The semi nude dancing, nude modelling according to her was all done years ago.. Maybe 8 years ago.

The involvement with porn was also according to her a long time ago.

I thought maybe I shouldn't judge her from her past.

I kinda went along with things, simply because I saw her as sex only.. However overtime developed some feels for her.

Then I realise this pornographer old man was still on the scene.. Plus she uses cocaine occasionally.

None of this is healthy foundations for a relationship.

Abuse as a child, self harming at some point.

Obviously this is a very damaged woman.. Decided to dump and run!

 

[stovepipe]

I think its dawning on me how I DODGED a massive bullet here.

Damaged woman can destroy a man in a very short space of time.

Its the great sex and attractiveness that keeps you hooked.. But honestly the price you will eventually pay will never be worth it.

I thank God I found the courage to dump her azz early on.. And not many more months down the line.

You 100% dodged a bullet. That sloot had enough red flags to make your head spin. Good job having the courage to leave that toxic situation. At least it wasn't all for nothing as you realize how much worse it could've been for you months/years down the line. I know all too well how even sleeping with them once is really all it takes to fall into the windows toxic web.


That's the main culprit, love bombing is the nail in the coffin. Too many guys are afraid to leave or call her out on her bad behavior because she's hot, the sex amazing, both or they think the love bombing is real. The devil knows beauty, lust and kinky sex are a man's biggest weakness.

 

[soulforge]

You 100% dodged a bullet. That sloot had enough red flags to make your head spin. Good job having the courage to leave that toxic situation. At least it wasn't all for nothing as you realize how much worse it could've been for you months/years down the line. I know all too well how even sleeping with them once is really all it takes to fall into the windows toxic web.


That's the main culprit, love bombing is the nail in the coffin. Too many guys are afraid to leave or call her out on her bad behavior because she's hot, the sex amazing, both or they think the love bombing is real. The devil knows beauty, lust and kinky sex are a man's biggest weakness.

Those guys who would stay in a relationship like that, would have to at some point pay a very heavy price.

How could do you possibly trust a woman who has such a SLEAZY background.

You would have doubts and mistrust in her for the most of the time.. Absolutely no peace of mind.

And the extra added worry of her developing a coke addiction, or going back to the nudity again.

Without trust you don't have a relationship.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Your game is not good enough for the task.

If it was, you would not waste time given newer hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.


Post wall ex or new girls+ lololol its not even a debate.


Not doing it right kuz.

 

[soulforge]

Your game is not good enough for the task.

If it was, you would not waste time given newer hotter girls are turning 18 everyday.


Post wall ex or new girls+ lololol its not even a debate.


Not doing it right kuz.

I'm already working on new chicks.

 

[EyeOnThePrize]

Even as fwb the entire reason it's enjoyable is because you let yourself go and dive deeper into the intimacy, really enjoying yourself. But if you're not strong enough to maintain frame through this release then keep your distance until you can. One ex I kept inviting to hookup but I wasn't in my frame at all. I acted like a cuck that wanted her back and she used me for sex for years until she found someone else. It wasn't enjoyable at all looking back. Not because the sex wasn't good, it was. But because I wasn't being honest with myself. There's no shame to saying no to sex. In fact when you're really on your grind sex will be the last thing on your mind, and it'll seem more like a hindrance that keeps you away from your passionate work.

Anyway with a bad girl like what you've described you gotta be stone cold and brutal with yourself. No exceptions. Imagine her screwing someone else, does that bother you? If it does then you're not ready. Only hit her up when the thought of her getting a train ran on her doesn't bother you. Don't be captain save a hoe.