my fuc* buddy wants to get together with me soon, but lately ive just not been feeling like i want to have sex because of some personal matters i need to deal with first. its been very hectic in my life lately and i don't know her well enough where i can disclose that kind of information to her. it's not because of her, but i'm just concerned that if i turn her down harshly unintentionally, she might think that i'm not interested, or playing games which is not the case.. how do i turn her down in a nice way?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how to turn down a girl?
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