"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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how to turn down a girl?

rocco

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my fuc* buddy wants to get together with me soon, but lately ive just not been feeling like i want to have sex because of some personal matters i need to deal with first. its been very hectic in my life lately and i don't know her well enough where i can disclose that kind of information to her. it's not because of her, but i'm just concerned that if i turn her down harshly unintentionally, she might think that i'm not interested, or playing games which is not the case.. how do i turn her down in a nice way?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MilanoRedDC5

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Tell her you're booked all week. Proceed with a, "We'll definetely try for next!"

Continue until you're ready to smash that again!

Goodluck with the personal problems man!
 

MacAvoy

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Ever hear of something called honesty? Tell her that your still attracted to her but you've got a lot on your plate this week and you look forward to making it up to her next week or whenver your herpes flare up goes away.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Mayfly

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Here's the perfect excuse always works...

I have AIDS


The girls will run away every time. But if she comes back with "I have herpes", you're screwed.

I would just be honest.
 
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