my fuc* buddy wants to get together with me soon, but lately ive just not been feeling like i want to have sex because of some personal matters i need to deal with first. its been very hectic in my life lately and i don't know her well enough where i can disclose that kind of information to her. it's not because of her, but i'm just concerned that if i turn her down harshly unintentionally, she might think that i'm not interested, or playing games which is not the case.. how do i turn her down in a nice way?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to turn down a girl?
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