"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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how to turn down a girl?

rocco

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my fuc* buddy wants to get together with me soon, but lately ive just not been feeling like i want to have sex because of some personal matters i need to deal with first. its been very hectic in my life lately and i don't know her well enough where i can disclose that kind of information to her. it's not because of her, but i'm just concerned that if i turn her down harshly unintentionally, she might think that i'm not interested, or playing games which is not the case.. how do i turn her down in a nice way?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MilanoRedDC5

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Tell her you're booked all week. Proceed with a, "We'll definetely try for next!"

Continue until you're ready to smash that again!

Goodluck with the personal problems man!
 

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Ever hear of something called honesty? Tell her that your still attracted to her but you've got a lot on your plate this week and you look forward to making it up to her next week or whenver your herpes flare up goes away.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mayfly

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Here's the perfect excuse always works...

I have AIDS


The girls will run away every time. But if she comes back with "I have herpes", you're screwed.

I would just be honest.
 
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