How to tell her if you are busy ?

[CrazyDude93]

I've been on 3 dates with this girl, . we had really good time together. The problem is: I'm very busy and can't meet her for the next 1 month. I'm not so sure that she's that into me. between the dates (1 date per week) we didn't call or send messages to each other. though everything SEEMED great last 3 dates . Now I'm thinking of calling her and tell her that I've been busy and can't see her for a while. I really like this girl and I don't want her to think that I give her BS reasons for not meeting her. SO.. any tips ?

 

[backseatjuan]

If you don’t meet and keep up communication alas play low IL game she will think you have low interest in her and her IL will drop. You telling her you busy.... I don’t know why would she listen if she has average less that 80% IL in you.

 

[CrazyDude93]

If you don’t meet and keep up communication alas play low IL game she will think you have low interest in her and her IL will drop. You telling her you busy.... I don’t know why would she listen if she has average less that 80% IL in you.

I haven't said anything yet. Just wanna let her know that I've been busy and I really am.

 

[Doctor Europeo]

Tell her u busy for a month a set up a date for when your free. She will either say yes or anything else is a no. If she says yes, she will either show up or flake.

Don´t overthink it. If she says yes and then cancels, she should be the one to counteroffer.

 

[Robert28]

Tell her u busy for a month a set up a date for when your free. She will either say yes or anything else is a no. If she says yes, she will either show up or flake.

Don´t overthink it. If she says yes and then cancels, she should be the one to counteroffer.

Setting up a date that far out is super risky. No one will think they were serious when offered that unless the guy is on a boat at sea.