"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to tame that feeling?

Fatal Jay

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yes I agree whatever you do....DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX, NO MATTER WHAT

your winning, the ball is in your court be proud

the wound will heal, I been there years ago and wish I knew sosuave back then

so take the advice from someone who been there
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Neon Owl

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Thanks guys. I've been doing a bit of reading up and it seems she has a lot of BPD traits...started out sweet as pie then gradually became uncontrollable...she would be up and down all the time one day she'd be all over me gazing into my eyes then the next telling me all the things she hates about me. I never knew where I stood with her.
This is actually the 3rd time we've split up I knew something wasn't right the whole time but I was infatuated with her and so chose to ignore my instinct telling me she was no good for me.
She also had a borderline eating disorder and refused to go to the doctors even after getting a smear test showing abnormalities because she just assumed she had cancer so what's the point in going :/ talk about being frustrated she actually drove me to tears at one point just for the fact I felt helpless to make her realise that she needs to get help.
I think once i get a good woman who is (relatively) normal I'll wonder wtf I was doing staying with her for as long as i did. Bring it on!
 

lamobatsman

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but I think he is pathetic for, acting like someone else and wasting his time trying to trick this woman

that's a f@cking loser move, that's very childish[/QUOTE]


so true. the girl i was gaming said the same thing about me too
 
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