"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How to tame that feeling?

Fatal Jay

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yes I agree whatever you do....DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX, NO MATTER WHAT

your winning, the ball is in your court be proud

the wound will heal, I been there years ago and wish I knew sosuave back then

so take the advice from someone who been there
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Neon Owl

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Thanks guys. I've been doing a bit of reading up and it seems she has a lot of BPD traits...started out sweet as pie then gradually became uncontrollable...she would be up and down all the time one day she'd be all over me gazing into my eyes then the next telling me all the things she hates about me. I never knew where I stood with her.
This is actually the 3rd time we've split up I knew something wasn't right the whole time but I was infatuated with her and so chose to ignore my instinct telling me she was no good for me.
She also had a borderline eating disorder and refused to go to the doctors even after getting a smear test showing abnormalities because she just assumed she had cancer so what's the point in going :/ talk about being frustrated she actually drove me to tears at one point just for the fact I felt helpless to make her realise that she needs to get help.
I think once i get a good woman who is (relatively) normal I'll wonder wtf I was doing staying with her for as long as i did. Bring it on!
 

lamobatsman

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but I think he is pathetic for, acting like someone else and wasting his time trying to trick this woman

that's a f@cking loser move, that's very childish[/QUOTE]


so true. the girl i was gaming said the same thing about me too
 
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