"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Fatal Jay

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yes I agree whatever you do....DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX, NO MATTER WHAT

your winning, the ball is in your court be proud

the wound will heal, I been there years ago and wish I knew sosuave back then

so take the advice from someone who been there
 

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Neon Owl

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Thanks guys. I've been doing a bit of reading up and it seems she has a lot of BPD traits...started out sweet as pie then gradually became uncontrollable...she would be up and down all the time one day she'd be all over me gazing into my eyes then the next telling me all the things she hates about me. I never knew where I stood with her.
This is actually the 3rd time we've split up I knew something wasn't right the whole time but I was infatuated with her and so chose to ignore my instinct telling me she was no good for me.
She also had a borderline eating disorder and refused to go to the doctors even after getting a smear test showing abnormalities because she just assumed she had cancer so what's the point in going :/ talk about being frustrated she actually drove me to tears at one point just for the fact I felt helpless to make her realise that she needs to get help.
I think once i get a good woman who is (relatively) normal I'll wonder wtf I was doing staying with her for as long as i did. Bring it on!
 

lamobatsman

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but I think he is pathetic for, acting like someone else and wasting his time trying to trick this woman

that's a f@cking loser move, that's very childish[/QUOTE]


so true. the girl i was gaming said the same thing about me too
 
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