"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to tame that feeling?

Fatal Jay

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yes I agree whatever you do....DO NOT REPLY TO THE EX, NO MATTER WHAT

your winning, the ball is in your court be proud

the wound will heal, I been there years ago and wish I knew sosuave back then

so take the advice from someone who been there
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Neon Owl

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Thanks guys. I've been doing a bit of reading up and it seems she has a lot of BPD traits...started out sweet as pie then gradually became uncontrollable...she would be up and down all the time one day she'd be all over me gazing into my eyes then the next telling me all the things she hates about me. I never knew where I stood with her.
This is actually the 3rd time we've split up I knew something wasn't right the whole time but I was infatuated with her and so chose to ignore my instinct telling me she was no good for me.
She also had a borderline eating disorder and refused to go to the doctors even after getting a smear test showing abnormalities because she just assumed she had cancer so what's the point in going :/ talk about being frustrated she actually drove me to tears at one point just for the fact I felt helpless to make her realise that she needs to get help.
I think once i get a good woman who is (relatively) normal I'll wonder wtf I was doing staying with her for as long as i did. Bring it on!
 

lamobatsman

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but I think he is pathetic for, acting like someone else and wasting his time trying to trick this woman

that's a f@cking loser move, that's very childish[/QUOTE]


so true. the girl i was gaming said the same thing about me too
 
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