"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.
That's exactly how I am with women, but it takes a lot of time to get there. Deep down, I want to be friends with all women...yet initially they will test me usually to see if I am gay. They will come out with a resounding NO and then be giggly and my friends from that point on. But there's no doubt that I am closer with women than I am with men because I need the support from women on a fundamental level (not NEEDY to any a$$ who would suggest that, but everybody needs to build on something, and for me it is the constant affirmation I get from women).

That said, I have no shame. So if someone asks me if I am a PUA, I say no, and that's the honest answer. I want to be your friend...and I also find you highly attractive. For me this is the best place to be, but for others you might only want to have a couple women on that fundamental level: your girlfriend, your mother, maybe a sister (i.e. you treat your mother how you would treat your wife). For me it's all women.

EDIT: And if there's confusion, obviously I would do more sexy things with women who were progressively younger and younger, and less and less related to me LMAO
 

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If you have a girlfriend and are insecure about things, I am probably your worst nightmare
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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