How to talk to girls

[LogMeIn]

I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

That last part will destroy your rep, you still need to have SOME kind of social boundary.

 

[Darth]

I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.

That's exactly how I am with women, but it takes a lot of time to get there. Deep down, I want to be friends with all women...yet initially they will test me usually to see if I am gay. They will come out with a resounding NO and then be giggly and my friends from that point on. But there's no doubt that I am closer with women than I am with men because I need the support from women on a fundamental level (not NEEDY to any a$$ who would suggest that, but everybody needs to build on something, and for me it is the constant affirmation I get from women).

That said, I have no shame. So if someone asks me if I am a PUA, I say no, and that's the honest answer. I want to be your friend...and I also find you highly attractive. For me this is the best place to be, but for others you might only want to have a couple women on that fundamental level: your girlfriend, your mother, maybe a sister (i.e. you treat your mother how you would treat your wife). For me it's all women.

EDIT: And if there's confusion, obviously I would do more sexy things with women who were progressively younger and younger, and less and less related to me LMAO

 

[Darth]

If you have a girlfriend and are insecure about things, I am probably your worst nightmare

 

[LiveYourDream]

That's exactly how I am with women, but it takes a lot of time to get there. Deep down, I want to be friends with all women...yet initially they will test me usually to see if I am gay. They will come out with a resounding NO and then be giggly and my friends from that point on. But there's no doubt that I am closer with women than I am with men because I need the support from women on a fundamental level (not NEEDY to any a$$ who would suggest that, but everybody needs to build on something, and for me it is the constant affirmation I get from women).

That said, I have no shame. So if someone asks me if I am a PUA, I say no, and that's the honest answer. I want to be your friend...and I also find you highly attractive. For me this is the best place to be, but for others you might only want to have a couple women on that fundamental level: your girlfriend, your mother, maybe a sister (i.e. you treat your mother how you would treat your wife). For me it's all women.

EDIT: And if there's confusion, obviously I would do more sexy things with women who were progressively younger and younger, and less and less related to me LMAO

Be careful. That is a dangerous trap. It's one that will never truly fulfill you.

 

[Darth]

Be careful. That is a dangerous trap. It's one that will never truly fulfill you.

F off

 

[LiveYourDream]

F off

Some people deeply appreciate an opportunity to choose differently and avoid a trap while others choose to go and experience a trap and all that goes with it, for themselves. I am not attached. Choice is yours as are the consequences. Enjoy the ride either way.