I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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That last part will destroy your rep, you still need to have SOME kind of social boundary.
That's exactly how I am with women, but it takes a lot of time to get there. Deep down, I want to be friends with all women...yet initially they will test me usually to see if I am gay. They will come out with a resounding NO and then be giggly and my friends from that point on. But there's no doubt that I am closer with women than I am with men because I need the support from women on a fundamental level (not NEEDY to any a$$ who would suggest that, but everybody needs to build on something, and for me it is the constant affirmation I get from women).
That said, I have no shame. So if someone asks me if I am a PUA, I say no, and that's the honest answer. I want to be your friend...and I also find you highly attractive. For me this is the best place to be, but for others you might only want to have a couple women on that fundamental level: your girlfriend, your mother, maybe a sister (i.e. you treat your mother how you would treat your wife). For me it's all women.
EDIT: And if there's confusion, obviously I would do more sexy things with women who were progressively younger and younger, and less and less related to me LMAO
F off
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.