I was in the car with my friends listening to them talk and I realize that since we're close we can talk about anything we want. That's how you should talk to girl in real life. Tell them they look fat. Ask them how old they are. Say you're a PUA.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Master Don Juan
That last part will destroy your rep, you still need to have SOME kind of social boundary.
That's exactly how I am with women, but it takes a lot of time to get there. Deep down, I want to be friends with all women...yet initially they will test me usually to see if I am gay. They will come out with a resounding NO and then be giggly and my friends from that point on. But there's no doubt that I am closer with women than I am with men because I need the support from women on a fundamental level (not NEEDY to any a$$ who would suggest that, but everybody needs to build on something, and for me it is the constant affirmation I get from women).
That said, I have no shame. So if someone asks me if I am a PUA, I say no, and that's the honest answer. I want to be your friend...and I also find you highly attractive. For me this is the best place to be, but for others you might only want to have a couple women on that fundamental level: your girlfriend, your mother, maybe a sister (i.e. you treat your mother how you would treat your wife). For me it's all women.
EDIT: And if there's confusion, obviously I would do more sexy things with women who were progressively younger and younger, and less and less related to me LMAO
F off
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.