"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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how to stop girls wanting to be your girlfriend? Jealousy

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I wanna be friends with girls, hang out with them, perhaps bang them, just be around them.
But i don't wanna be their boyfriend. Got a issue with a girl now and she won't contact me since finding out I'm out with women.
Just have to move on and find other girls.

How do we screen for this stuff? Had guys tell me they will hunt me down if i hurt their sister/cousin. Not physically hurt them they mean If I go and bang other girls and shes hurt from this.

Of course It's ok if its a hooker but if its some other girl all hell breaks loose.

Some girls are cool with not being your girlfriend.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wanna be friends with girls, hang out with them, perhaps bang them, just be around them.
But i don't wanna be their boyfriend. Got a issue with a girl now and she won't contact me since finding out I'm out with women.
Just have to move on and find other girls.

How do we screen for this stuff? Had guys tell me they will hunt me down if i hurt their sister/cousin. Not physically hurt them they mean If I go and bang other girls and shes hurt from this.

Of course It's ok if its a hooker but if its some other girl all hell breaks loose.

Some girls are cool with not being your girlfriend.

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Almost all girls I've dated, eventually want to be my GF. The exception is a coworker who recently expressed interest in being a Side-chick.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I wanna be friends with girls, hang out with them, perhaps bang them, just be around them.
That's interesting, and somewhat unusual for around here - when you say "perhaps bang them". Most guys here seem to be only concerned with banging them, and would take great effort to avoid being in a situation where that doesn't take place. The fact that you say you want to "just be around them" indicates you actually like them, whereas a lot of guys in the community seem to hate women, or at least dislike them.

I've been wondering lately about an approach where you friendzone every girl. I've heard a few guys discussing this, theorizing that it would drive them crazy, but I don't know of anyone who has actually tried it for any length of time.
 

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Quality women have no interest in being a side piece or part of a rotation. If you show them what they can have, they will move mountains to be with you...
 

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One thing that I've realized over the years is that women can be more competitive than men. Once they start dating a man they're interested in, they realize that other women are interested in him too, so they need to lock him down to avoid competition from those other bytches. In other words, it's pretty much inevitable that any women you fvck will eventually try to lock you down. Just remember that most women won't try to lock you down because they're truly in love, they're doing it because they know they're competing against other women. The only exceptions to this rule are women who haven't been alpha-widowed.
 
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