I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What is your f*cking a problem? I asked a god damn question *******, yeah, I see how it is, I'll f*cking request you be banned everytime to ask a question to. And if you think I'm trolling, stop fooling yourself, this site isn't worth trolling on. You suck at life, die. Now I'm trying to improve and get over pervness and if you don't have any good advice, well suck a **** assh*le, this site is for STRAIGHT men. Maybe you're just trolling my topic, to hide the fact that you're too much of a piece of **** to actually have any good advice.WesCottII said:
umm...I'll take "you are" for fiveViper said:
I say, the toys really are out the pram now kiddo. Want me to help pick them up?
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And if you think I give a damn about anything you say, stop fooling yourself kiddo. I suck at life? "hi pot, I see you've met kettle"
You didn't let me finish....sure I have advice, I've given it to you before in the past and you whined, and cried, then whined some more, without even trying it (yeah, you didn't try it, or you wouldn't be whining again).
And if you think I give a damn about you, stop fooling yourself. You could die today, and I still wouldn't care.
I'll take "grammar *****" for 10.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Viper said:
Do the world a favor and kill yourself.
Yeah, I guess I do feel kind of guilty about it, I'm just afraid that if I'm checking girls out and someone sees/the girl sees, they'll think I'm a pervert or something. But still man, it's hard to not feel guilty when you masturbate to fantasies of these girls. I'll definitely check out those threads, because I'll admit, I am a desperate guy.Gubby said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You WILL? Don't put things off, do it now
Heheh XD I had guilt like this once... nowadays I almost wish girls could read my mind so I could see the looks on their faces