"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How to stop being a perv.

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I've got to stop being such a perv man, I'm always looking at hot chicks butts when no one's looking, and it's really tempting not to. I'm dude, I'm just a pervert man, even when a chick with a nice booty gets off the bus, I look. So, how do I get over being a pervert?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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WesCottII said:
Someone ban this tit.
What is your f*cking a problem? I asked a god damn question *******, yeah, I see how it is, I'll f*cking request you be banned everytime to ask a question to. And if you think I'm trolling, stop fooling yourself, this site isn't worth trolling on. You suck at life, die. Now I'm trying to improve and get over pervness and if you don't have any good advice, well suck a **** assh*le, this site is for STRAIGHT men. Maybe you're just trolling my topic, to hide the fact that you're too much of a piece of **** to actually have any good advice.
 

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Viper said:
What is your f*cking a problem?
umm...I'll take "you are" for five

I asked a god damn question *******,
I say, the toys really are out the pram now kiddo. Want me to help pick them up?

yeah, I see how it is, I'll f*cking request you be banned everytime to ask a question to
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Yeah, and watch everyone ignore you. Just like real life, uncanny that isn't it?

And if you think I'm trolling, stop fooling yourself, this site isn't worth trolling on. You suck at life, die.
And if you think I give a damn about anything you say, stop fooling yourself kiddo. I suck at life? "hi pot, I see you've met kettle"

Now I'm trying to improve and get over pervness and if you don't have any good advice, well suck a **** assh*le, this site is for STRAIGHT men.
You didn't let me finish....sure I have advice, I've given it to you before in the past and you whined, and cried, then whined some more, without even trying it (yeah, you didn't try it, or you wouldn't be whining again).

Here's my advice. Shut up. Dumbass.
 

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And if you think I give a damn about anything you say, stop fooling yourself kiddo. I suck at life? "hi pot, I see you've met kettle"
And if you think I give a damn about you, stop fooling yourself. You could die today, and I still wouldn't care.

umm...I'll take "you are" for five
I'll take "grammar *****" for 10.

And here's my advice to you. Get a f*cking life and stay out of my topic. Jesus, I'm starting to hate this forum so f*cking much. I can't ask a f*cking question and get a f*cking answer. If you're going to be an *******, I don't even WANT your advice. And if you so calledly already answered this question, link me to the topic, smartass.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Viper, how about taking the advice of stop being so negative?
 

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You don't need to stop being a perv, you need to stop being guilty about it.

Everyone looks at girls butts. The correct answer to "were you just looking at my butt?" is "yeah, so?" (Girls that make a big deal out of stuff like this are b'itches and should be ignored, as a rule.)

If you're guilty about doing "pervy" things, girls will pick up on this and be wierded out. If you're cool and act like it's your right, they should be cool too.

Being SEXUAL is good, read Pook's posts. There's a difference between being sexual and DESPERATE, though. Chicks are wierded out by DESPERATE NEEDY guys, but they LOVE guys who are sexual. The basic difference is that the sexual guy wants it, but he doesn't NEED it. He's not going to do anything he doesn't want to in order to get it.

In fact, better said, he's not thinking about getting sex; he's JUST thinking about how cute this girl's arse is (etc). Being in the moment as opposed to "trying" for anything.

Read: Kill that desperation!
Embrace your sexuality!

Both by Pook. Think hard about how these two work together.
 

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Viper said:
I'll take "grammar *****" for 10.

And here's my advice to you. Get a f*cking life and stay out of my topic. Jesus, I'm starting to hate this forum so f*cking much. I can't ask a f*cking question and get a f*cking answer. If you're going to be an *******, I don't even WANT your advice. And if you so calledly already answered this question, link me to the topic, smartass.

Sorry sunshine, not in the business of taking advice from losers.
Feel free to keep whining though, I won't be reading it, I have more constructive things to do.

Before I leave though, one more thing, shut the hell up. No-one wants to hear from you, about you or anything to do with you.
 

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Sorry sunshine, not in the business of taking advice from losers.
Feel free to keep whining though, I won't be reading it, I have more constructive things to do.

Before I leave though, one more thing, shut the hell up. No-one wants to hear from you, about you or anything to do with you.
Do the world a favor and kill yourself.

Gubby said:
You don't need to stop being a perv, you need to stop being guilty about it.

Everyone looks at girls butts. The correct answer to "were you just looking at my butt?" is "yeah, so?" (Girls that make a big deal out of stuff like this are b'itches and should be ignored, as a rule.)

If you're guilty about doing "pervy" things, girls will pick up on this and be wierded out. If you're cool and act like it's your right, they should be cool too.

Being SEXUAL is good, read Pook's posts. There's a difference between being sexual and DESPERATE, though. Chicks are wierded out by DESPERATE NEEDY guys, but they LOVE guys who are sexual. The basic difference is that the sexual guy wants it, but he doesn't NEED it. He's not going to do anything he doesn't want to in order to get it.

In fact, better said, he's not thinking about getting sex; he's JUST thinking about how cute this girl's arse is (etc). Being in the moment as opposed to "trying" for anything.

Read: Kill that desperation!
Embrace your sexuality!

Both by Pook. Think hard about how these two work together.
Yeah, I guess I do feel kind of guilty about it, I'm just afraid that if I'm checking girls out and someone sees/the girl sees, they'll think I'm a pervert or something. But still man, it's hard to not feel guilty when you masturbate to fantasies of these girls. I'll definitely check out those threads, because I'll admit, I am a desperate guy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I'll definitely check out those threads
You WILL? Don't put things off, do it now:D

But still man, it's hard to not feel guilty when you masturbate to fantasies of these girls.
Heheh XD I had guilt like this once... nowadays I almost wish girls could read my mind so I could see the looks on their faces :D:D

You get rid of the guilt bit by bit. Remember you are right, they are wrong, and you can do whatever the f'uck you like. God can stop you if he doesn't want you to.:D
 

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What in the hell is this.

Consider this your warning viper. If you continue to flame and troll other users I will suggest you for a banning. I don't care if someone else starts it. Both violate the rules but it seems that you bring out the worst in people. It would be unfair to ban everyone that says something negative to you because you always post utter crap then retaliate.

Just stop
 
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