Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What is your f*cking a problem? I asked a god damn question *******, yeah, I see how it is, I'll f*cking request you be banned everytime to ask a question to. And if you think I'm trolling, stop fooling yourself, this site isn't worth trolling on. You suck at life, die. Now I'm trying to improve and get over pervness and if you don't have any good advice, well suck a **** assh*le, this site is for STRAIGHT men. Maybe you're just trolling my topic, to hide the fact that you're too much of a piece of **** to actually have any good advice.WesCottII said:
umm...I'll take "you are" for fiveViper said:
I say, the toys really are out the pram now kiddo. Want me to help pick them up?
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And if you think I give a damn about anything you say, stop fooling yourself kiddo. I suck at life? "hi pot, I see you've met kettle"
You didn't let me finish....sure I have advice, I've given it to you before in the past and you whined, and cried, then whined some more, without even trying it (yeah, you didn't try it, or you wouldn't be whining again).
And if you think I give a damn about you, stop fooling yourself. You could die today, and I still wouldn't care.
I'll take "grammar *****" for 10.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Viper said:
Do the world a favor and kill yourself.
Yeah, I guess I do feel kind of guilty about it, I'm just afraid that if I'm checking girls out and someone sees/the girl sees, they'll think I'm a pervert or something. But still man, it's hard to not feel guilty when you masturbate to fantasies of these girls. I'll definitely check out those threads, because I'll admit, I am a desperate guy.Gubby said:
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You WILL? Don't put things off, do it now
Heheh XD I had guilt like this once... nowadays I almost wish girls could read my mind so I could see the looks on their faces