How to spot or test for BPD woman?

[sosumba]

What can you do to covertly test if the woman is BPD when you date ther?

 

[GioWolf]

They usually talk a lot. Like non stop. Love bombing also. Nothing covert about them. All the red flags are very overt if you aren’t solely thinking with your penis.

 

[Billtx49]

They will make personal life decisions that seem childish or so nonsensical it leaves you with a one word question. Why?

 

[dark god]

They will make personal life decisions that seem childish or so nonsensical it leaves you with a one word question. Why?

^^^ this right here

 

[Bible_Belt]

Splash her with holy water to see if she melts.

 

[Robert28]

They will overshare right away. Every relationship they’ve ever had they’ve always been the victim, they’ll mention daddy or mommy issues or “abuse”, they’ll come right out and tell you that they have abandonment issues.

 

[Bible_Belt]

Every relationship they’ve ever had they’ve always been the victim

Every ex is THE WORST PERSON IN THE WORLD. But you are the best person in the world...for now.

 

[Henry Schweiss]

BPD resources from my friend Jeremy:

BPD Resources for understanding and recovery

Forward If you’re here, you and someone you love are probably in tremendous pain. My heart goes out to you. This resource is primarily aimed at supporting those who are currently or were previously in a romantic relationship with a BPD partner. If you feel trauma from this experience you’re no...

docs.google.com

 

[Robert28]

Every ex is THE WORST PERSON IN THE WORLD. But you are the best person in the world...for now.

Yep. I hate borderlines with a passion. They’re basically narcissists that don’t have a spine. They’ll stab you in the back just as fast, they’re cowards, they talk in vague terms. I wish nothing but bad things to happen to borderlines.

 

[Focal core]

Do a background check on her, if she has been able to live alone with themselves with some sensible long period of time.. Every narcicist will fail this.

 

[Lookatu]

They will be all lovey dovey one minute and instantly attack you or blow up the next min.

Also, I ALWAYS recommend to guys if they get a chance to hang out at the girl's place, excuse yourself to the bathroom and look in her medicine cabinet for any meds.

 

[Focal core]

Splash her with holy water to see if she melts.

You forgetting about the chanting parts, {shout out loud that jesus christ compels you!}

 

[Robert28]

They will be all lovey dovey one minute and instantly attack you or blow up the next min.

Also, I ALWAYS recommend to guys if they get a chance to hang out at the girl's place, excuse yourself to the bathroom and look in her medicine cabinet for any meds.

Most narcissists aren’t going to invite you inside their house. And if they do it won’t be until months of knowing them, it’s the weirdest thing.

 

[Jack12345]

What can you do to covertly test if the woman is BPD when you date ther?

Why would you want to do it?

 

[Jack12345]

Take her to a doctor

 

[Jack12345]

Tell her things straight. Open communication is important in relationship

 

[Epimanes]

Firstly.. check to make sure she has a vagina.... if so... she likely has bpd. I think they all have it to a degree... just different brands and flavors of it....

 

[Jack12345]

Firstly.. check to make sure she has a vagina.... if so... she likely has bpd. I think they all have it to a degree... just different brands and flavors of it....

True. Everyone who had a mother knows how to spot a bpd. 99% of them like this

 

[Spaz]

Oh, it seems my chicken comment has been removed without any explanation...

Cowardly men who gives permission to women to bully them mercilessly until they hv some sort of PTSD just need to be a little wee bit braver.

Next time a little weak girl bullies you, learn to say NO.

So easy. I've medically cured you men.

Y'all can call me Dr. Spaz now.

 

[Lookatu]

Most narcissists aren’t going to invite you inside their house. And if they do it won’t be until months of knowing them, it’s the weirdest thing.

Who said anything about narcissists? I was talking about a bpd woman, not a npd one.
It took me 4 months to get inside of a npd gal's house for what it's worth. So yeah I'm talking about bpd only.