PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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Yawn, I think niel is extremely out of touch with reality
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They're marriedMale virgins (and virtual virgins) are common here. They reveal themselves in many ways:
1) Showing bitterness at other members success - if you are here to help, why knock down another person's achievements? Virtual virgins do this in a flailing attempt to level the playing field.
2) Underrating girls - Who really gives a f*ck whether a girl I think is hot is someone you think is hot, and why should your not thinking a girl is hot diminish her? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Trying to knock another member down by saying their women aren't that hot is a curious approach to increasing your own popularity.
3) Doom and gloom forecasts - A successful seducer assumes women will fall in love with him. Someone with a lot of failures will say "I'm warning you, don't go near her, she'll shatter your heart into a million pieces!"
4) Call a girl names - Did you ever see James Bond when one of his women turns on him and aims a gun at him? Does he call her a slvt? Does he call her a cvnt? Does he say "You USED me!" Of course not. He smirks and thinks "I'll still have sex with her later".
5) Calling girls prostitutes - Every man worth his salt knows prostitution should be legal. It's only fat women, underemployed men and virgins who stomp their feet and whine about this concept. Also, if a man does pay that only means he has enough money, so he is strong in other areas.
6) Making personal insults - Telling a man he doesn't look good is pretty ridiculous. As a general rule, a man's attractiveness are the same as the women he dates.
7) Unilaterally declaring a woman's rating - "She's only a 5" they will say with great pride, as if they officially win the debate. Ratings are based on consensus because no two people picture the same 10.
8) Blaming BPD - An alpha male always blames himself for his failures, and especially wouldn't self-diagnose a rare condition.
All of the above are anti-seducer traits. Unsuccessful men will employ these because misery wants company.
The purpose of this forum is to assist men in getting their dream girls, but beware - if you achieve this, you'll get a whole lot of sour grapes.
What are some other traits that reveal a person who hasn't had sex in a long time?
Yea @da dynamically messaged me a few days ago asking me to post messages for him.Obviously, bans don't mean what they used to. Dude still has viewing and messaging privileges.
I hope you told him to forget it. If any member is caught posting for a banned member he will be immediately permanently banned.Yea @da dynamically messaged me a few days ago asking me to post messages for him.
Looking into it.Obviously, bans don't mean what they used to. Dude still has viewing and messaging privileges.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.