"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to Spot a Male Virgin

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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9) Or any poster on sosuave who has a black and white photograph with "bigneil" posted below as an alias.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Male virgins (and virtual virgins) are common here. They reveal themselves in many ways:

1) Showing bitterness at other members success - if you are here to help, why knock down another person's achievements? Virtual virgins do this in a flailing attempt to level the playing field.

2) Underrating girls - Who really gives a f*ck whether a girl I think is hot is someone you think is hot, and why should your not thinking a girl is hot diminish her? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Trying to knock another member down by saying their women aren't that hot is a curious approach to increasing your own popularity.

3) Doom and gloom forecasts - A successful seducer assumes women will fall in love with him. Someone with a lot of failures will say "I'm warning you, don't go near her, she'll shatter your heart into a million pieces!"

4) Call a girl names - Did you ever see James Bond when one of his women turns on him and aims a gun at him? Does he call her a slvt? Does he call her a cvnt? Does he say "You USED me!" Of course not. He smirks and thinks "I'll still have sex with her later".

5) Calling girls prostitutes - Every man worth his salt knows prostitution should be legal. It's only fat women, underemployed men and virgins who stomp their feet and whine about this concept. Also, if a man does pay that only means he has enough money, so he is strong in other areas.

6) Making personal insults - Telling a man he doesn't look good is pretty ridiculous. As a general rule, a man's attractiveness are the same as the women he dates.

7) Unilaterally declaring a woman's rating - "She's only a 5" they will say with great pride, as if they officially win the debate. Ratings are based on consensus because no two people picture the same 10.

8) Blaming BPD - An alpha male always blames himself for his failures, and especially wouldn't self-diagnose a rare condition.

All of the above are anti-seducer traits. Unsuccessful men will employ these because misery wants company.

The purpose of this forum is to assist men in getting their dream girls, but beware - if you achieve this, you'll get a whole lot of sour grapes.

What are some other traits that reveal a person who hasn't had sex in a long time?
They're married
 

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Obviously, bans don't mean what they used to. Dude still has viewing and messaging privileges.
Looking into it.

As for you, posting that jpg with the insulting caption is against the rules. Please don't do that.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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