"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How to Spot a Male Virgin

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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9) Or any poster on sosuave who has a black and white photograph with "bigneil" posted below as an alias.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Male virgins (and virtual virgins) are common here. They reveal themselves in many ways:

1) Showing bitterness at other members success - if you are here to help, why knock down another person's achievements? Virtual virgins do this in a flailing attempt to level the playing field.

2) Underrating girls - Who really gives a f*ck whether a girl I think is hot is someone you think is hot, and why should your not thinking a girl is hot diminish her? Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Trying to knock another member down by saying their women aren't that hot is a curious approach to increasing your own popularity.

3) Doom and gloom forecasts - A successful seducer assumes women will fall in love with him. Someone with a lot of failures will say "I'm warning you, don't go near her, she'll shatter your heart into a million pieces!"

4) Call a girl names - Did you ever see James Bond when one of his women turns on him and aims a gun at him? Does he call her a slvt? Does he call her a cvnt? Does he say "You USED me!" Of course not. He smirks and thinks "I'll still have sex with her later".

5) Calling girls prostitutes - Every man worth his salt knows prostitution should be legal. It's only fat women, underemployed men and virgins who stomp their feet and whine about this concept. Also, if a man does pay that only means he has enough money, so he is strong in other areas.

6) Making personal insults - Telling a man he doesn't look good is pretty ridiculous. As a general rule, a man's attractiveness are the same as the women he dates.

7) Unilaterally declaring a woman's rating - "She's only a 5" they will say with great pride, as if they officially win the debate. Ratings are based on consensus because no two people picture the same 10.

8) Blaming BPD - An alpha male always blames himself for his failures, and especially wouldn't self-diagnose a rare condition.

All of the above are anti-seducer traits. Unsuccessful men will employ these because misery wants company.

The purpose of this forum is to assist men in getting their dream girls, but beware - if you achieve this, you'll get a whole lot of sour grapes.

What are some other traits that reveal a person who hasn't had sex in a long time?
They're married
 

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Obviously, bans don't mean what they used to. Dude still has viewing and messaging privileges.
Looking into it.

As for you, posting that jpg with the insulting caption is against the rules. Please don't do that.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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