Jake_tha_Boss
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How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
how to show disinterest
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
ARrocket
Master Don Juan
Why would you want to show disinterest?
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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I mite not have used tha rite word but i basically want to show a b!tch she aint my end all be all that she dont run tha fvcking show i do, i know tha ends but not tha means tha theory but not practice understands me?
NorwegianDJ
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Please use proper grammar if you want proper answers.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Using spell check this time well i understand avoiding oneitis but what im missing is how can i come across as "i could really give a fvck less" to a chick because when i talk i feel like i seem too interested when i'm trying to spit game, i'm thinking i could act more distracted when im talking to chicks, any thoughts?
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
ARrocket
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What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her.
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
Plec07
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NorwegianDJ hit the nail on the head. Not being needy comes from having other options. Make it clear to her that she's not the only one who likes you. Show interest in the fact that you enjoy her company and would like to get to know her better, but she should still know that it's her privilage to be talking to you. Not the other way around.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Talk to more girls point taken
PS : plies is my shyt
PS : plies is my shyt
Jake_tha_Boss said:How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
Plec07
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I don't believe thats why he wants to show disinterest. I believe he's trying to show that she's not the only one he's thinking about.stevenson said:It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.