Jake_tha_Boss
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How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
how to show disinterest
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
ARrocket
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Why would you want to show disinterest?
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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I mite not have used tha rite word but i basically want to show a b!tch she aint my end all be all that she dont run tha fvcking show i do, i know tha ends but not tha means tha theory but not practice understands me?
NorwegianDJ
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Please use proper grammar if you want proper answers.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Using spell check this time well i understand avoiding oneitis but what im missing is how can i come across as "i could really give a fvck less" to a chick because when i talk i feel like i seem too interested when i'm trying to spit game, i'm thinking i could act more distracted when im talking to chicks, any thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ARrocket
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What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her.
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
Plec07
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NorwegianDJ hit the nail on the head. Not being needy comes from having other options. Make it clear to her that she's not the only one who likes you. Show interest in the fact that you enjoy her company and would like to get to know her better, but she should still know that it's her privilage to be talking to you. Not the other way around.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Talk to more girls point taken
PS : plies is my shyt
PS : plies is my shyt
Jake_tha_Boss said:How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
Plec07
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I don't believe thats why he wants to show disinterest. I believe he's trying to show that she's not the only one he's thinking about.stevenson said:It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.