Jake_tha_Boss
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How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
how to show disinterest
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ARrocket
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Why would you want to show disinterest?
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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I mite not have used tha rite word but i basically want to show a b!tch she aint my end all be all that she dont run tha fvcking show i do, i know tha ends but not tha means tha theory but not practice understands me?
NorwegianDJ
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Please use proper grammar if you want proper answers.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Using spell check this time well i understand avoiding oneitis but what im missing is how can i come across as "i could really give a fvck less" to a chick because when i talk i feel like i seem too interested when i'm trying to spit game, i'm thinking i could act more distracted when im talking to chicks, any thoughts?
“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
ARrocket
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What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her.
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
Plec07
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NorwegianDJ hit the nail on the head. Not being needy comes from having other options. Make it clear to her that she's not the only one who likes you. Show interest in the fact that you enjoy her company and would like to get to know her better, but she should still know that it's her privilage to be talking to you. Not the other way around.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Talk to more girls point taken
PS : plies is my shyt
PS : plies is my shyt
Jake_tha_Boss said:How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
Plec07
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I don't believe thats why he wants to show disinterest. I believe he's trying to show that she's not the only one he's thinking about.stevenson said:It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.