Jake_tha_Boss
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How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
how to show disinterest
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ARrocket
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Why would you want to show disinterest?
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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I mite not have used tha rite word but i basically want to show a b!tch she aint my end all be all that she dont run tha fvcking show i do, i know tha ends but not tha means tha theory but not practice understands me?
NorwegianDJ
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Please use proper grammar if you want proper answers.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Using spell check this time well i understand avoiding oneitis but what im missing is how can i come across as "i could really give a fvck less" to a chick because when i talk i feel like i seem too interested when i'm trying to spit game, i'm thinking i could act more distracted when im talking to chicks, any thoughts?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
ARrocket
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What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her.
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
Plec07
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NorwegianDJ hit the nail on the head. Not being needy comes from having other options. Make it clear to her that she's not the only one who likes you. Show interest in the fact that you enjoy her company and would like to get to know her better, but she should still know that it's her privilage to be talking to you. Not the other way around.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Talk to more girls point taken
PS : plies is my shyt
PS : plies is my shyt
Jake_tha_Boss said:How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
Plec07
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I don't believe thats why he wants to show disinterest. I believe he's trying to show that she's not the only one he's thinking about.stevenson said:It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.