Jake_tha_Boss
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How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
how to show disinterest
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
ARrocket
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Why would you want to show disinterest?
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Disinterest is not the same thing as aloofness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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I mite not have used tha rite word but i basically want to show a b!tch she aint my end all be all that she dont run tha fvcking show i do, i know tha ends but not tha means tha theory but not practice understands me?
NorwegianDJ
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Please use proper grammar if you want proper answers.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Just go for several girls, and this problem will solve itself. If you only go for one, you put too much importance on her, and your persistence turns into neediness.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Using spell check this time well i understand avoiding oneitis but what im missing is how can i come across as "i could really give a fvck less" to a chick because when i talk i feel like i seem too interested when i'm trying to spit game, i'm thinking i could act more distracted when im talking to chicks, any thoughts?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
ARrocket
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What the young Norwegian up there said is absolutely correct. If you truly have many, many options, you truly won't give a fvck, and that will be quite obvious to her.
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
PS: Plies is weird as fvck
Plec07
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NorwegianDJ hit the nail on the head. Not being needy comes from having other options. Make it clear to her that she's not the only one who likes you. Show interest in the fact that you enjoy her company and would like to get to know her better, but she should still know that it's her privilage to be talking to you. Not the other way around.
Jake_tha_Boss
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Talk to more girls point taken
PS : plies is my shyt
PS : plies is my shyt
Jake_tha_Boss said:How do i show disinterest wen im talkin to a chick
It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
Plec07
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I don't believe thats why he wants to show disinterest. I believe he's trying to show that she's not the only one he's thinking about.stevenson said:It's really not possible to turn someone who really likes you without it hurting. But just be nice to her and let her down easily.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.