"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How to respond, when your confronted during nc

Fatal Jay

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I'm currently in nc with a ball busting bi#ch. She always finds her way to where I am at and ask me why haven't I called or text her?

How do I respond. Even though I want to really sh#t on here, I rather come up with a don juan response to keep her off my back

any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Fatal Jay said:
I'm currently in nc with a ball busting bi#ch. She always finds her way to where I am at and ask me why haven't I called or text her? How do I respond.
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The rhetorical answer.

Why do you think that I haven't called or texted you?

The Captain Obvious answer.

Because I don't want to talk to you.

The SoSuave answer.

No contact means no contact.

The Omnipotens Maximus Rex answer.

Because I'm currently f*cking a chick who not only looks waaay better than you, she acts better than you and is a hellva a lot easier to get along with. She also bakes an apple pie that rivals my Granny's.
 
Fatal Jay

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lol even though those are all genius, I will roll with the first one
 
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How to respond, when your confronted during nc
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Sign language. Or charades. Whichever you're better at.

Don't break the silence.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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