"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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How to respond, when your confronted during nc

Fatal Jay

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I'm currently in nc with a ball busting bi#ch. She always finds her way to where I am at and ask me why haven't I called or text her?

How do I respond. Even though I want to really sh#t on here, I rather come up with a don juan response to keep her off my back

any suggestions?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I'm currently in nc with a ball busting bi#ch. She always finds her way to where I am at and ask me why haven't I called or text her? How do I respond.
The rhetorical answer.

Why do you think that I haven't called or texted you?

The Captain Obvious answer.

Because I don't want to talk to you.

The SoSuave answer.

No contact means no contact.

The Omnipotens Maximus Rex answer.

Because I'm currently f*cking a chick who not only looks waaay better than you, she acts better than you and is a hellva a lot easier to get along with. She also bakes an apple pie that rivals my Granny's.
 

Fatal Jay

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lol even though those are all genius, I will roll with the first one
 

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How to respond, when your confronted during nc
Sign language. Or charades. Whichever you're better at.

Don't break the silence.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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