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How to react to Dreamy eyes

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Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
 

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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
 

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Dante420 said:
I don't get it, especially whenever a girls staring at you that's what you wake up in the morning and live for
It felt real good. I was enjoying the moment and I didn't really think to smile and knew if I did it would come off as a half smile, which feels weird.
You also gotta think to, why would you want a women with baggage(BF,Married). When you can find a single one equally as hot with no baggage.
 

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Just smile at her. It doesn't mean you have to hook up with her.
 

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Crissco said:
Heres a scenario ive run into before:

Woman is sitting with her boyfriend/date, and she turns around and gives me dreamy eyes. I looked at her in eyes, very calm, with no facial expression except me blinking. She breaks eye contact.
To my knowledge she never looked back again. How would you guys react to show your interest once she give you the dreamy eyes.(If she was alone I would of approached her). I would of smiled but I didn't have it in me that moment, it would of came out as one of those half smiles. Do you think smirking with a wink would do?

Crissco
Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
 

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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CaptainJ said:
Wow, over analyze much? When a girl gives the "dreamy" eyes, it means "come and talk to me"
Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
 

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Crissco said:
Yea I tend to do that occasionally haha. The reason I didnt go and talk to her was because she was with someone.
So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
 

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CaptainJ said:
So?

The situation is not always going to be how you want it, girls are not always going to be out on their own, making eyes at hunky strangers. You've got to take the initiative and get out of your comfort zone. You may even find them easier to talk to when they are with friends (I sure do).
She was drinking wine with a guy, she was probably on a date bro.
 

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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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CarlitosWay said:
could have been a brother, cousin, mutual friend, best friend, work acquittance. Who knows :)
(Evil ha ha ha laugh) :crackup: I like ya thinkin
 
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